Tuesday, February 7, 2012

How to make your mom happy


“How to make your mom happy”
1.  Listen to your mom when she is stressed



When she is stressed or in some kind of tensions releases her burden by sharing her stress and strain and listens to her the first time and pay attention. Try to change or divert her mind by involving her in some other activities. E.g. realize her qualities and praise her randomly. Tell her about something going on in your life and then ask her about what things were like when she was this age. Most moms want their kids to know that they're not that far away from their kids. The memories of being a young adult are still vivid and life was equally exciting and perplexing.
 Sincerely tell her what a great mom she has been and what a happy childhood you had. Then, the absolute best thing you can do is to tell her that you still value her wisdom and experience and that you're grateful she's the one that is still scouting ahead for you, and you'll always need her good advice. Now top it off with a cherry by saying "I really love you Mom."
2.Give her gift on her birthday
When your mom’s birthday is coming, start planning a party before a week. Through a party, call your mom’s friends and relatives and arrange special gift to your mom. Observe your mom’s choice and select a gift for her according to her taste and preference.
Go to market or any shopping centre and bring any dress of her favorite color or take any product related to households e.g. decoration piece, glass set,
Spend a couple of money out of your own money on something she will really enjoy and watch her eyes light up. Sometimes, the effort can mean even more than the thought.
3.Support her in social life
Sincerely tell her what a great mom she has been and what a happy childhood you had. Then, the absolute best thing you can do is to tell her that you still value her wisdom and experience and that you're grateful she's the one that is still scouting ahead for you, and you'll always need her good advice. Now top it off with a cherry by saying "I really love you Mom."
Try to divide the supervision work from servant so that she feels comfortable and relax.
4. Help her in house work
Help her with some sort of redecorating project. It could be tedious, but again, it shows you're so interested in being with her and helping her that you're willing to make the sacrifice.
Help her in cooking or preparing salads and table to make her feel happy.
Make your bed, pick up after yourself, cook a meal, swish the toilet, wash your own dishes, etc. Don't wait for her to remind you. Whatever you do, don't wait for her to do it for you.
5.Share her responsibilities
It’s a very good idea to make your mom happy by sharing her household or any other responsibilities. You share her daily based tasks and work than she feels relaxed and comfortable. When she is happy than actually she will gain healthier life.  Make your bed, pick up after yourself, cook a meal, swish the toilet, wash your own dishes, etc. Don't wait for her to remind you. Whatever you do, don't wait for her to do it for you.
6.                Give love and attention to your siblings
The best way is to spend time with your siblings and give great love and attention to your siblings.  When your mom see you spending time and loving your siblings she feels so proud of you.
Make notice of your sibling’s daily routine and keep check and balance on their routine so that you also share her responsibilities.
Be nice. Have a good attitude and be project good cheer throughout the day. Be polite and resist the urge to argue. A day without sarcasm or arguments can make even the most hardened mom happy.
7.                Make special plans for mother day
If you live in different cities, tell her what you're doing on Mother's Day and then tell her how much you wish she was there so you could do it together. This wills make her feel almost as good as being there.
Give bench of flowers which reflects love and care for her. Ask your other siblings as well to participate in the event.
8.                Give gifts randomly apart from any special event
Apart from any special event, give her gifts to enhance her confident that she is a perfect mom who is fulfilling her all kinds of responsibilities and her family recognize and appreciate her effort.
Take a photo of you and your mom together, print it, and frame it. She'll think of you and that moment every time she looks at it.
Spend a couple of money out of your own money on something she will really enjoy and watch her eyes light up. Sometimes, the effort can mean even more than the thought.

9.               Spend Time with her
Spend time with her it will prove to her that you really want to spend time with her.
Ask her what movie she's been waiting to see and then plan a time to bring it over and sit down together to watch it. Again, it's the idea that you can take time for her that will deliver the impact.
Talk with her. Ask her about her day and give her all the time she needs to answer. Let her go into detail or run off on tangents. People do a lot of talking to and at moms, but not nearly as much talking with them.

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